Thursday, December 18, 2014

28 Things You Need To Know About Robbie Rogers

Fresh off of an MLS Cup win and the release of his new book Coming Out to Play, the soccer star visited BuzzFeed to talk fashion, ping-pong, and more!



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1. Even though he wrote a long public coming-out letter and now a book, he still considers one of his greatest weaknesses to be writing. "I have no confidence in myself as a writer," he said.


2. But he considers his greatest strength to be "the personal side of business" and building relationships. "I've learned that I'm OK at that."


3. The feeling of coming out to his family "was definitely better than anything I've had in my career."


4. But winning the MLS Cup earlier this month with the Los Angeles Galaxy was a career highlight and "felt like everything [was] coming together in life," Rogers said.


5. Rogers had won the championship with the Columbus Crew prior to coming out — in the same stadium, nonetheless — but this time, he said it was totally different. "I was able to celebrate, and cry, and laugh, and be happy with my family, and know exactly who I am, what I've gone through."



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6. Before writing Coming Out to Play, Rogers said the longest thing he's ever written was a 10-page paper his freshman year at the University of Maryland.


7. His inspiration for writing the book was the reaction to his coming-out letter and "figuring out that I'm not the only gay person in the world, and a lot of people struggle with this stuff."


8. Writing the book was "like a breakup," Rogers said. "I learned a lot about myself while I was writing it ... you learn a lot of things."


9. The response has been the best part of writing. "Never in a million years did I think I was going to save someone's life by selfishly coming out to my family," Rogers said.




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“If Harry Potter taught us anything it’s that no one should live in a closet.” She wins Twitter once again.


This week, J.K. Rowling revealed that there was at least one Jewish student at Hogwarts.


This week, J.K. Rowling revealed that there was at least one Jewish student at Hogwarts.


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21 Writers Who Got It Right About New York City

Before Jay Z, there was Jay D. (Joan Didion. Sorry.)



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"Each neighborhood of the city appeared to be made of a different substance, each seemed to have a different air pressure, a different psychic weight: the bright lights and shuttered shops, the housing projects and luxury hotels, the fire escapes and city parks."

-- Teju Cole, Open City



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"Quite simply, I was in love with New York. I do not mean "love" in any colloquial way, I mean that I was in love with the city, the way you love the first person who ever touches you and you never love anyone quite that way again."

-- Joan Didion, "Goodbye To All That"




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Problems Every Book Lover Will Understand

“Harry Potter is not a children’s book.


You know the struggle.



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You're like:


You're like:


TriStar


Everyone else is like:


Everyone else is like:


Nickelodeon


Basically:


Basically:


Disney




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Wednesday, December 17, 2014

What We Talk About When We Talk About PostSecret

Frank Warren’s PostSecret project in a post-“Secret” world.



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For more than 10 years, strangers from around the world have been sending their secrets to a suburban home in Germantown, Maryland, scribbled or pasted onto anonymous postcards. Over time, the mailbox at 13345 Copper Ridge Road has held not only secrets but wedding bands, engagement rings, and razor blades: objects taped to cards and sent away as untraceable secrets themselves.


And every Sunday, Frank Warren — the founder of PostSecret and keeper of the mailbox — has dutifully scanned and posted a handful of these postcards to his lo-fi Wordpress site, PostSecret.com. What began as a personal art project has become an international community, now entering its second decade.



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There are two secrets that Warren has seen hundred of times. The first is "I pee in the shower." The second?


"I see this secret every time I go to my mailbox. I always see it expressed a different way," Warren said in an interview with BuzzFeed. "It's basically a story about trying to find that one person who you can tell all your secrets to. There's that common thread, that search for intimacy, that search for the one person we can be our whole and true selves with."


Now, of course, there's an app for that. In fact, there are several. But the world is a markedly different place today than it was a decade ago, when Warren began the PostSecret project. It was 2004: there was no Twitter, there was no Instagram, and Facebook had just launched out of Mark Zuckerberg's dorm room. The iPhone didn't exist. Edward Snowden was 21.


Today's top secret-sharing apps — Whisper, Secret, and Yik Yak — are rumored to be valued at a combined total of well over $400 million. But before the economy of secrets boomed to its current size, there was Frank Warren: a man with a mailbox in Germantown, Maryland. In 2004, Warren started an art project called PostSecret, calling for strangers to send him postcards with their anonymous secrets. He hoped to receive 365. To date, he has received more than a million from around the world.




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The 28 Best Books By Women In 2014

Poetry, fiction, and non-fiction that killed it this year. Ranked in no particular order.



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47 Incredibly Unique Books To Buy Everyone On Your List

These make great last minute gifts thanks to your local bookstore and Amazon Prime



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For the cat person.


For the cat person.


Find it here.


Koyama Press


For the comedy nerd.


For the comedy nerd.


Find it here.


Chronicle Books


For proud library card holders.


For proud library card holders.


Find it here.


University Of Chicago Press




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A Definitive Ranking Of Jane Austen's Male Hotties

Don’t get me started on Collins.


William Collins, Pride and Prejudice


William Collins, Pride and Prejudice


Pros: Are there any?????

Cons: Clingy, annoying, unattractive, conceited. Has as much personality as a damp rag, but less useful.


BBC


Philip Elton, Emma


Philip Elton, Emma


Pros: Um... good with words, I guess?

Cons: HEARTLESS PLAYER.


Miramax


George Wickham, Pride and Prejudice


George Wickham, Pride and Prejudice


Pros: Really hot. Pretty charming. Nice hair.

Cons: Dirtbag.


BBC


John Willoughby, Sense and Sensibility


John Willoughby, Sense and Sensibility


Pros: Chivalrous!

Cons: Self-centered and materialistic.


Mirage Productions




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J.K. Rowling Announces That There Was At Least One Jewish Student At Hogwarts

“Anthony Goldstein, Ravenclaw, Jewish wizard.”



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What Is The Most Christmas Book Of All Time?

When it comes to Christmas books, which one gives you all the ~FEELS~?